A true relationship is actually very simple and it only needed just few aspect
(i) Honesty
(ii) Loyalty
(iii) Trust
(iv) Love
Isn't it sound pretty easy?
But how many of you able to have all of these element?
(i) Honesty
-able to tell your partner everything without trying to camourflage or hide
-able to speak out everything without any intention to lie
-being straight forward in every conversation
-no lies, fraud or prank in relationship
Do you think is easy? I bet not much of you can do it
But i have been doing it ever since i know you
(ii) Loyalty
-loving one without any hesitation
-loving one without any intention to fall for another person
-never drift off to another new relationship
-always loving your partner as tomorrow is the Final Destination in life
(iii) Trust
-trusting your partner with everything she said
-build in trust to believe there's no fishy or hanky panky behind
-believing in the future up ahead
Trust is a bit difficult to achieve if Honesty and Loyalty is missing
(iv) Love
-this is easy to said but hard to do as it's not a general form
-love with purity and loyalty
-love come with care and concern
-love isnt just a word, it an action of love
-Love with guts love with pride
-Loving you with my everything
A true relationship is when you can tell each other
ANYTHING and EVERYTHING
(every single thing which u think is unnecessary but it meant everything to your partner, as nothing is every UNNECESSARY in relationship, why would you NOT telling? Would you rather causes misunderstanding and fight only it's time to be truthful?)
Think about it
NO LIES AND NO SECRETS
Life there's always ups and downs When things are down under, It's just telling us to support each other to climb back up Not giving up and let it fall even down under...
No matter how, when things are worst.. I'll be the one whom stand at the bottom most to give you the push back to top even by all
mean it will make me fall even under till into the soil..
Have you guys felt before the pain and suffering when waiting for someone you love?
I can tell you, the feeling is very painful because you see the clock ticking every second, every minute every hours to reach the time you expecting to see that particular someone
That feel is seriously torturing..
People says
Happy moment, times fly
Sad Moment, times doesnt even move
When you waiting for that particular person and you cant find her
you are not allowed to contact her
you are not allowed to ring her
you are not allowed to sms her
Even if you did contact, ring or sms her
Your replies was never been replied
Your replies took several hours to get ONE single reply
and that particular SINGLE reply is short and basically have no meaning in it
Your replies is completely ignored
During that moment of waiting,
You do not know what happening around her
You do not know whether is she alright
You do not know if things are good
You do not know who is around her
You do not know how to make her talk to you
You do not know how to NOT pissed her off
While she was
Enjoying her time
Taking all the possible sweet moment
Having lots of fun
Having chit chat like chatterbox
Having meals
Whilst you are
Waiting for the time to pass
Neglected your daily routine
Missing out meals
Isolating yourself from others
Sitting or lying down doing nothing
Restless waiting
Even if you tried to distract or indulge yourself and concentration on
Work
Entertainment
Leisure
Pleasure
Food
But those doesnt last long as your heart will fly back to the restless waiting time
People that never waited
You will never understand how painful it is
Saying is easy like asking you to
Rest/ Take a break
Study
Revise
Entertainment
Well it really depends on how important that person to you
Imagine you are waiting your lover, a person whom you are
Eagerly to talk to
Missing her
Thinking of her
A lot things to share
A lot question to ask
A lot of thing wanted to know about her
and many more
That feeling is a slow process torturing and pain
No matter how you tried to find her, she just doesnt reply you or contact you
I really wonder
Is the person whom waiting is a BLOODY IDIOT or just another Great Lover?
The person whom be waited?
Do you know how people felt?
Have you try put yourself in people shoe to think for others?
Imagine you are in such situation
Unless probably because you just have no feeling of wanting to
Meet him
See him
Miss him
Talk to him
Love him
Care for him
Of course you feel there's no problem at all to all these
Sometime i really wonder..
Should people whom been always waiting for another actually learnt to put that person down
and let it go
Since that other person whom be waited doesnt appreciate nor understand the pain you going through
yet enjoying all the possible fun she could have
Will you ever START to UNDERSTAND how WAITING FELT like?
Try figure it out or try it out..
And you will know making people whom longing to see and meet you for such a LONG PERIOD of time
is a real SUFFERING!!
Please feel thankful if there's people whom willing to do so
Try to ease their pain by even just giving them regular reply
( A GUY WHO IS SERIOUSLY IN LOVE AND NOT JUST AN INFACTUATION )
1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys hate flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.
5. “Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!
13. Guys cry!!!
14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what? Uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow.”
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate nice boy!
25. Guys love their moms. 26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. Its good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive.
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up. I Have grown up a lot from this..
53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically. 54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”
59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys. (I love it when you smell as you are)
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed of you or he’s criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!
97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.
Is another day ending the Month Of September
Supposingly to be a month which I'm most happy of
but things just doesnt get on the right track
Anyway
A friend of mine, name E
Awaken me from my pitiful life
Though i still couldn't let go but well things will work out fine
Wounds doesnt heal fast.
E gave me some Korean lesson
Not sure will E keep on teaching me anot but here is what i learn in an hour time
An nyong = hi/hello (first thing to greet ppl with)
Nae = me
Yi Lem = name
En = is
ib ni da= ending of word? (not sure :p)
First constructed sentence
"An nyong, Nae Yi Lem En Jasonyap id ni da"
(Hello, My name is Jason Yap toot toot toot)
hahaha
Pam gap serp ni dah = glad to meet you
1= il
2= yi
3= sa,
4= sah
5= oh
6= yoi
7 = cil
8= pal
9 = gu
10 = sip
11 = sip il
20= yi sip
all the word sound similar to me
is like mixture of hakka hokkien and chinese in a way
Well that's all about my Korean lesson
My sensei E is missing after that ><"
Wonder will E teach me smthg new
P.S : If you ever wonder is E is a guy or a girl, make a guess
But something to make it straight, E is occupied and not available
haha
Well
Will update if anything up on 1/10/11
when the fish is hooked on, is not ur choice to be indecisive.. since when can a fisherman determine the fish he caught, he only can determine the preference of the fish via bait
People have a lots of aims, motive and greed in everything they possessed and never satisfied with what they have no matter in relationship, financial, social status, materials, academics and people around
Have anyone though of there always things that are greater then what u possessed?
Just like in a relationship
You always tend to complained that your partner is
not thoughtful
not caring
not good looking enough
not smart enough
not rich enough
and many more
Have you ever think about yourself?
Do you think you are the best choice your partner can have?
Out there, in this big world,
There are million of people that have better in every aspect that you have yet your partner chosen you rather then the others
Do you ever learn how to be contented on what you have and appreciate them rather then complaining about it?
Many people does not realized that what they have is good enough for themselves
Human are greed scavenger. We greed for money, We greed for Freedom, We greed for Status, We greed for every possible thing you can compete with.
But have you ever feel contented with what you have?
There's limit to everything you could achieve
There's always things greater or better then what you have
but is it obtainable? is it sustainable? is it achievable?
Ask yourself about it
I saw this photo in Facebook attracted my attention on this issue
Let's have a look
I would like to shared something with you as well
Credit to Jeremy Yap (my brother)
he sent this to me when my heart was broken
A store that sells "New Husbands" has opened in New York City
where woman may go and choose a husband.
Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates:
You may only visit this store ONLY ONCE!
There's six floors and the values of products increases as the shopper ascends the flights
The shopper may choose any item from a particular floor, or may choose to go up
to the next floor, but you CAN NOT go back down except to exit the building
So a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband
On the First floors, the sign on the doors reads
Floor 1 - "These Men Have Jobs"
She is intrigued but continued to the second floor
On Second Floors, the sign on the doors reads
Floor 2 - "These Men Have Jobs and Love Kids"
"That's nice", she thinks, "but i want more."
So she continues upwards
Third floor sign reads
Floor 3 - "These Men Have Jobs, Love Kids, and are Extremely Good Looking"
"Wow", she thinks
but feels compelled to keep going
She goes to fourth floor and the sign reads
Floor 4- " These Men Have Jobs, Love Kids, Drop-dead Good Looking and Helps with Houseworks"
"Oh, Mercy Me!", she exclaims." I can hardly stand it!"
She goes on to fifth floor
The sign read
Floor 5 - "These Men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-Dead Gorgeous, Help with Houseworks and Have a Strong Romantic Streak"
She is so tempted to stay but she goes to the sixth floor
The sign reads
Floor 6 - " You are visitor number 31,234,546 to this floor.
There are no men on this floor.
This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please!!
Thanks you for shopping at The Husband Store
In order to avoid gender bias charges, The owner opened a "New Wives Stores"
just across the street
The first floors sign read
Floor 1 - " These Womens Love Sex"
The 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th and 6th have never been visited.
Rather funny story but within the story we can see that human are hard to please and contented by the things the could possessed and wanted more, regardless of gender
However, in some cases, guy are easily to please in relationship compare to girls (in my opinion)
Maybe is because I'm one of the guys that felt contented with the girlfriend i have
but doesn't meant my girlfriend felt the same
Anyway no offence!
Cheers with the last joke
Creditted to Jeremy Yap as well
Broccoli : "Im not happy with my look, I look like a tree."
Walnut : " Im no unlucky, I look like a brain."
Mushroom : " That's not too bad, I look like an umbrella."
Banana : " Can you guys please change the topics?"
